KC vs Piolo: Kilig vs Pag-ibig

Everybody was shocked when KC finally spoke about her breakup with boyfriend, Piolo Pascual yesterday at The Buzz. Well, I guess everybody saw it coming. The moment they confirmed on national TV that they were together, everybody knew how it's gonna end. 


And indeed, it was yet another cliche. 


I was able to watch the edited version of her interview with Boy Abunda yesterday and sad to say, but I think KC took the relationship too superficial. Okay, fine. You can't blame her. She was totally in love with her then-boyfriend. Just like what everyone says, who wouldn't be knocked down by Piolo's incredible charm and smile. For me, it appeared that everytime they had problems, Piolo sways KC with too much pa-kilig that the girl forgets about everything that happened and forgives him in a swift. And the pa-kilig thing became a routine everytime they fight. 


Kilig is a lot different from Love. That's something I've learned with my six long years with Kali. Of course, may mga times na we need Kilig to make the relationship sweeter and much more exciting but  most of the time, respect, love and trust are the things we need to make it last. 


Also, KC knew all along that Piolo is bisexual. She knew what she was getting into and yet she chose to be on the situation. Okay, fine. She took the risk. But C'mon. For someone who's confused with his own sexuality, you can't expect a 360 degree turn from him in a couple of years given the industry he's in and the time that he's been confused with his gender-preference. KC just can't change Piolo kahit ialay niya pa ang buong pagkatao niya dito. Because Piolo is his own person. He decides whether he'll let her change him or he stick to his sexuality.


Eto lang yan: It's an open secret that Piolo is indeed gay. Okay, sige. Bisexual. There has been too many rumors and with such number, it wouldn't be too hard not to believe it. Walang usok, kung walang apoy. Even before KC was part of the show business, there has been stories that reveal Piolo's real gender preference. And even before being Gay has been open or accepted in the society, Piolo has been part of the gay rumors. 


Of course, who doesn't want to be the reason why a person changes? Lahat naman tayo may ganung idea. Good girlfriend wants to change her bad boyfriend. But, this is too ideal. Besides, with the case of Piolo and KC, it's not the attitude that she has to change, but his sexuality which are but two different things. 


Okay. Okay. Enough of this issue.


Nakaka(t)awa lang kasi, KC put too much of herself into this knowing from the start what kind of person her boyfriend is. But we couldn't blame her because she was in love. And when you're in love, you tend to be ideal... and stupid.